ive looked through and i cant find anything about using .iso files with umodel which was ultimately what i was after.
You did not told that you have problems with iso extraction, so I've supposed that you have troubles with the basic umodel usage - that's why I've sent a link to FAQ
is there a way to use umodel with an .iso file or would i have to convert the file or what?
No, umodel does works with packages, not with iso. There are some instructions on the forum (including
this thread) describing extraction of packages from iso
i dont want to waste anyones time so ill try and be as clear as i can:
what i have:
gears of war 1 & 2 on discs for xbox 260.
gears of war 1 .iso on my computer.
umodel + the gui.
cinema4d photoshop and 3d studio max.
That's enough

what im looking for:
gears of war character mesh/model with textures.
weapon mesh/models with textures (if possible, characters are the main priority.)
animations would be nice but not neccessary.
Extract xxx files from iso and use umodel on that files. This forum has all necessary information.
going to look if i can extract a default.xex from the .iso if this isnt right or not possible then i am genuinely and honestly stuck. please understand my inexperiance and exercise patience with my insessive failings and annoying questions =/
You don't need default.xex for umodel.
I suggest you to watch for "iso extraction" thread, read the FAQ (it has links to some tutorials), "documentation" and "usage problems" boards, and then try to get everything by yourself.